Join 2571+ Subscribers

Unlock the Power of Confident Speaking: 5 Proven Strategies

Oct 26, 2023

Believe it or not, I was once the shy kid in the room. Yes, the thought of speaking to strangers or addressing a crowd used to make me clam up. But over the years, I've conquered that fear and now, I confidently speak in front of large audiences and even on national television.

Are you wondering how I did it? If so, you're in the right place. In this post, I'll share five strategies that will help you become more articulate, well-spoken, and ultimately, more confident in your speaking abilities.

1. Be Prepared and Stay Informed

One of the first careers I embarked on was in the service industry—bartending and waiting tables. It’s an industry that's often overlooked, but it equipped me with one of the most valuable skills—confidently speaking to people.

I quickly realized the importance of being prepared and staying informed. I would skim through the morning newspaper, keeping myself updated with headlines and sports scores. This gave me the confidence to participate in conversations, even if I didn't have strong opinions. The key was to have enough knowledge to ask questions and contribute to the discussion.

2. Practice Positive Self-Talk

Have you ever noticed how your self-talk can affect your confidence? When it comes to speaking up at meetings or joining conversations, we often doubt ourselves or think our opinions aren't important. But why do we talk down to ourselves when we would never speak to another person that way?

We need to practice positive self-talk, especially before speaking in public or having important conversations. Embrace your knowledge and experience, and share it. This has made a world of difference for me and opened up countless opportunities.

3. Pay Attention to Your Body Language

Our body language can convey a lot without us saying a word. When you align your facial expressions and body language with the message you're trying to convey, you'll become much more confident in what you're saying. So, let's be mindful of how we present ourselves—it truly matters.

4. Vary Your Voice Cadence and Tone

Ever been in a meeting where someone's voice was so monotonous, it nearly put you to sleep? If you speak in a way that bores people, it won't boost your confidence as a speaker. Learn to vary the cadence and tone of your voice to keep listeners engaged. Avoid sounding monotone at all costs. A great way to learn this is by watching comedians—they know how to keep their audience engaged.

5. Make Eye Contact

Eye contact can transform your confidence and earn respect. Make eye contact with the people you're talking to, but remember, not in a creepy way!

By applying these five strategies, you can boost your confidence in speaking and potentially open up new opportunities for yourself and others around you.

Key Takeaways

1. Stay Informed: Keep yourself updated on key topics to confidently participate in discussions.
2. Positive Self-Talk: Embrace your knowledge and experience and share it with confidence.
3. Mindful Body Language: Pay attention to your facial expressions and body language—it can influence your message.
4. Vary Your Voice: Learn to vary the cadence and tone of your voice to prevent sounding monotonous.
5. Eye Contact: Making eye contact can transform your confidence and earn respect.


You've just taken your first steps to becoming an amazing confident speaker. Don't forget that the process is ongoing and believe in yourself – you can do it. Now, you have all the tools you need to take your public speaking to the next level. Set achievable goals for yourself and make sure to practice consistently so that one day soon, you’ll be speaking in front of a large audience with complete ease and confidence. Most importantly, remember that confidence is found within, so focus on always believing in yourself no matter what your journey looks like. 

If anyone can learn to speak confidently, it's you! Ready for more guidance? Join me at the No Nonsense Leadership Bootcamp where we'll dive deeper into building powerful presentations and extraordinary conversations – I can't wait to see you there!

Are you ready to level up your leadership skills? Join over 2200+ readers of The Leadership Gems 💎 Weekly Newsletter and unlock a world of possibilities!

Join Thousands of Subscribers (Leaders)